It’s an age old dilemma.
Is it better to make more friends of your own gender or branch out and become friends with girls? Some awkward experiences in the past probably tell you it’s a lot less messy if you stick to hanging out with the guys. But the truth is, having girls around brings a whole new perspective to life that you might not know you were missing out on.
Here are nine reasons why you need girls who get along with the guys in your life.
They Are Forgetful
Girls who get on well with guys don’t hold on to things. In fact, they’re pretty forgetful when it comes to the negative stuff. They don’t hold grudges and you can accidentally wrong them without fear of them exacting vengeance on you.
They Have an Open Mind
Girls who hang out with guys have an open mind on life, love and relationships. Because they’re cool with platonic relationships between men and women they’re already bucking the trend.
They value having several different perspectives. That’s why they surround themselves with great girlfriends and lost of trustworthy guys.
Their open minds think clearly and rationally. It makes them a huge help when you’re trying to make a serious decision.
They Are Cheerful
Girls who get along better with guys are generally in a better mood. They think positively and they don’t let the little things drag them down.
Having anyone like this in your life is essential. When you’re having one of those days, these kinds of friends can remind you that you have got a lot to smile about.
They Don’t Care About Petty Things
These girls don’t care about petty things. In fact, they don’t even think about caring about petty things.
They won’t ask you trick questions and they won’t attack you for using the wrong words. Instead, they just get to the point. It lets the conversation flow because there is no hidden agenda.
They’re Eager to Try New Things
Girls who have friends of both sexes want to have new experiences and try new things. They want to get the most out of life and their passion is infectious. Having people like this around is perfect because they’ll help you get over any apprehensions you have when facing something difficult.
Essentially, girls like this will hold your hand as you jump off the cliff, proverbial or otherwise.
Girls who have a lot of friends of both sexes are energetic. They have a lot going on and a lot that they still want to do. There aren’t enough hours in the day so they have to pack it in, filling every second of their day with something interesting and exciting.
This energy is inspiring. It inspires you to better, to do more and to chase your dreams. Who doesn’t want someone who inadvertently encourages you to go after what you want?
They’re Emotionally Consistent
Girls who have male friends are pretty emotionally consistent. They’re stable and always cheerful and generally satisfied with what’s going on around them.
Sure, they are a rock but it’s because they made themselves that way. They’re in control of their own happiness and they don’t let others get them down.
Take their advice on important issues and you’ll learn a lot about making solid, rational decisions.
They Like Your Male Friends and Your Female Friends
A girl that gets along with everyone is a girl that you can take everywhere. They will like your male friends, they’ll get on with your female friends and they’ll never get in the way of your romantic interests.
Having someone that you can introduce to your best friend, your date, your parents or even your boss is amazing. You’ll never have to worry if they’ll be nice to the other people in your life. That’s someone you can rely on even when everything has gone wrong.
They Understand How You Feel and Don’t Push
Girls who get along with guys are accepting of the personalities of both sexes. She’ll never push you into elaborating on your feelings to validate her own feelings. She’ll get that there are somethings that you don’t want or need to talk about and she’ll let that be.
In fact, she will probably find a way to make sure you know she understands without even having to ask you what is wrong.
Hollywood thinks that being friends with girls is hard. But being friends with the right girl is the easiest thing you’ll ever do. Girls who get on with guys get what’s going on in your head. These girls will let you be you and that doesn’t just make them good friends but good people too.
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